Because giving up is the easiest way out.
But if you take that road, you’ll never grow. You’ll never accomplish the things your heart quietly aches for.
I know that might sound a little harsh—but sometimes, the truth has to be. And deep down, I think you’ll understand that more quickly than you expect.
I’m aware my tone isn’t soft.
I grew up that way. As a little girl, my father used tough love—strict, even harsh methods—to push me to do better.
I launched my website on March 7, 2024.
It was a dream I had carried for a long time, but I kept delaying it. I told myself I didn’t have enough time. I wondered, “Who would even read what I have to say?”
But I leaped anyway, despite the doubts, and chose to do something new and difficult.
I was lucky to receive kind encouragement from my family and close friends. I made plenty of mistakes at the beginning. I’m still learning, still stumbling sometimes. But that’s part of the journey, I guess.
I know you’ve heard stories like this before. I’m not claiming to say something brand new. I’m just sharing my truth. When I started, it wasn’t great. Even with all my enthusiasm, things felt shaky. But I haven’t given up. Not once, because my dreams aren’t flashy or huge. They’re humble. I simply want to help someone through my personal experience—as a woman, as a stress coach, and as a single mother of two since 2008.
It’s hard. It’s painful. It’s a huge responsibility to raise children on your own, especially when you never chose to be alone.
You can’t stop death. You can’t stop people you love from leaving this world.
But what you can choose is this:
How will you live the rest of your life?
I’ll leave you with just one thought:
Don’t force things just because they seem better for you. You have to want them.
I hope you feel the difference.
Stay safe.
And don’t worry—this isn’t the end of my story.
It’s only the overture.